Reevaluations

There are times in our lives when there are sudden drastic changes that are just too overwhelming...when those times happen we need to evaluate who and what are most important to us and cling to those and forget about the ones who are trying to control us based on their own wants and needs. We've all hit these cross roads in life, when family or friends want us to do one thing because that is what is best for them, while we are trying to tear away the other because it is indeed what is best for us. All the while keeping to ourselves because we are afraid to hear from anyone and everyone because it seems that they are all against us in one way or another...when in reality there are those who care and support what you believe is best for your life, because you are the only one who knows best, but still be there to offer advise when it is seeked. There are ears out there that listen and care, some of which even can give good advise when it is seeked upon...the receiving end just has to be willing to show that vulnerability.